“Please! Mistress, I want you to abuse me!” you keen, as you do not see the room through the blindfold of your own making.
No.
Kink is not abuse
I just saw another interaction on a social media outlet that raised my hackles. I direct messaged one of the people and found, instead of a shattered, joyless slave, there was a bouncy, uplifted bottom who reveled in the public humiliation. They thanked me for making sure they were o.k., and I backed off. And, even though the initial interaction I saw was not ‘good’, I was happy that they were happy.
Why did I message them? Because, as a Dominant and reluctant Elder, it is my duty to be aware of situations that could turn badly, and cut it off before it does so. The only way to do that is to go to the person who seems to be abused and communicate with them.
“But! Isn’t all BdSm kinkiness abuse?” I hear you mumble through your socially unaware gag.
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