Stereotypical phrases

 

I was at a conference when I heard this - "Teaching a blowjob like a gay guy."
I laughed.  Then I thought.  It made me think about stereotypes, specifically ones in BdSm. 
What stereotypes are there in bdsm?
Exit to Eden, 50 shades of Grey, Lady Heather... »Read More

Yet another website

I am starting up another website, Share-Tit, to keep track of the Erotica and such I like from other sources.  It is bare bones at the moment, but we shall see how that works out.

 

Miss R

A session glance

There is a noise.  You are on your knees and were told not to turn, not to move.  But the noise is loud and sudden and you have to see what it was.

*Smack*

The crop hits your shoulder, coming uncomfortably close to your ear as it swings past.  Your eyes snap back to the front and look at the place you were told to look.  There are more noises, but you try to ignore them as you look at the wood floor, a small divot showing something hard had hit there.  Recently.

There is a tug on your hair and then a cloth is pulled down over your eyes.  You can still hear.  The noises are slightly muffled, but that just makes them more alarming.  Fingers are running across your bare skin and you tense right before you think a finger is going to tweak your nipple.

*Smack*

“No flinching.”

The voice is calm, almost businesslike as you are reminded of the rules.  Do not flinch.  Only look where you are told.  Do not speak or call out or even moan without permission.

The last one is hard as you feel a hand on your throat, tightening as a whisper of a kiss is brushed past your lips.  You follow the pressure of the hand and stand, waiting as the blindfold is doing it’s job and not letting you see what is happening.

The hand is gone from your throat and you think you can hear a step to the side, but you cannot even turn your head to track the noise without knowing you will be punished.

There is a clink of chain and you feel something trailing over your shoulder.  A leash is being clipped to your collar and you follow the pull.  There is a small laugh as you knock into a chair, a push on your arm shoving you out of the way of something else, you hope.

You are led around the room, step by step.  You can’t be as hesitant as you may want because of the constant pull on your lead.

It stops and you take one step too many.

*Smack*

You stand and then you are pushed slightly down on the shoulder, the signal to kneel again.  You are on a pillow.  Surprising as you hadn’t seen any in the room when you entered.  You hear a chair move and it is right in front of you.

“Now...  Let’s see if you have learned anything since last time.”

Your blindfold is off and you blink to try to get used to the bright light in the room.  She is sitting there, and she must have been pleased with the session so far.  She has a smile and is sitting so that you can see the lace barely covering her between her thighs.

She nods.

I am now tweeting.

To help let people know where I am and what fabulous things I shall be doing, I now have a Twitter account.  Look for leathermines and keep up to date with what I am doing.  Be nice, and I might follow you, too.

 

Miss R

Digital Chastity

He waited for the text.  It was getting too close to the bedtime She had set for him, but he had to get online to send a work email.  She had set the computer to shut off exactly at his bedtime and he needed to send the email that night.

He knew that he could have gone around the password she had set, but she had ways of knowing what he did, even beyond the key logger he had found and had disabled one time.  She had called him directly within the hour, telling him his punishment for not only disabling the key logger, but having been to the websites he had visited.  This was why she was his Mistress.  She was on the ball and more savvy than any of the others he had contacted over the years.

He looked back to the smart phone as if the glance would make the text come through.  She had never taken this long to reply before.  10 minutes to bed time.

He needed the password to be able to access his Internet account.

He took the time to rework the email.  Putting in a part of the project he had forgotten to mention before.  He looked at the clock and grimaced.  Less than 2 minutes.

The phone vibrated and he had it in hand before the actual ring for the text sounded.

One line, the password plus "It's their, not they're."

He was able to send the corrected email before the computer turned it's self off.  He sat there, staring at the screen for a few minutes, letting the shock of the text wear off before he started on his bed time routine.

He could not sleep.  It was even more direct than when she called him.  She knew what he had written.  And had corrected him.  He looked at the glowing numbers and tried to close his eyes.

The chime that announced that the computer was turning on for the day.  It was the best alarm clock for him.  Knowing he can get online within a few minutes of that sound did something to him to bring most of him awake at once.

He waited that morning.  He cleaned himself.  He dressed.  He fed himself.  He was close to needing to get to the bus to get to work when he approached his computer.  The email had been received, looked over and the reply was waiting for him.  He was happy as he went out to the bus stop.

There was a vibration and the phone was in his hand as the text came through.  "Congratulations.  An hour extra tonight."

He almost went home to masturbate because of the reaction the simple text brought out of him.  He didn't, knowing She would know somehow, and would not want to push it.

Picture of the Day – Waiting to be cleaned

These are just the boots I have waiting for my boot black to get to. Yes, I know some are not black.

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Punishment at the Boarding School

The boarding school was full of noise that morning.  The three boys that had been called out to the courtyard were confused and nervous, not knowing what Matron Hellen wanted them for.  They had not done anything, recently, and quietly talked amongst themselves before the stern form of the Head Governess slowly walked from the covered walkway that formed one wall of the courtyard.

She had a small folder with her.  It was plain, unadorned and yet, the boys knew whatever had brought them out of class was in that folder.

She only had to snap her fingers and the boys lined up, their mouths closed and looking at the greying woman.  She was in an old-fashioned dress, the long skirt brushing the tops of her shoes as she paced in front of the boys. »Read More

Fact Sheet- How to plan a Play Party

I have had experience planning, and hosting play parties. Some were very successful, some I have carefully forgotten. Well, not completely forgotten, for if you do not learn from your mistakes, you are bound to repeat them.

The best way to plan a Play party is to know what you want out of it. Is it a Dom tea party? Is it a video watching party? Buffet served on naked subs? Touchy-feelly or stand off and watch others? Think about this as you plan.

Do you have a place to hold a play party? If you don’t, that kind of puts a kink, as it were, into the whole idea. Space wise, if there will be any real play between people, bondage, flogging, etc., plan on about 25 square feet per couple at full play. Sounds like a lot, but consider that is only a space 4 feet by 5 feet, slightly larger than the footprint of a loveseat. Split up the combined area into play, watching and rest and you may need a fairly substantial space. »Read More

The Massage

From time to time, I get interesting emails. Here is just one...

THE MASSAGE

Dear Miss R,

I have a problem and I would like your help. There is a situation that happened that I am not too sure what to do about. I am a White BBW with long red hair(all natural), not as gorgeous as you, but I believe I can hold my own. I am a Dom by nature which I only realized a few years ago, but have been having great fun with it. The problem is that I had an encounter that has shaken my self image.

I guess the only way to get your help is to tell you what happened.

I was asleep on the table when it happened, or at least that was what I thought at first. No, it really started lots earlier than that. »Read More

Uh, food?

I am a contributor to MadisonKink.com.  I write articles about all sorts of things over there and usually do just my Erotica and such over here.  But, if you have come here from MadisonKink, you might be wondering why I have pictures of myself in Chef whites on MadisonKink.

I am a... wait for it... Chef.  Tada!  That is one thing about the BdSm community and lifestyle.  The play is nice, but there is real life that has to pay the bills.  Just like any hobby, like bowling or comic books or golf, it is an investment in time and money.  Then there are those pesky everyday things like utilities and rent.  Yea, I know.  It kinda blows the whole Pro Dom persona, but it is reality and the truth.

I have been in food service for a very long time.  I have done everything from dishwasher and bussing up to running catered feasts.  Just like with me coming 'up in the ranks' in kink, I have done so in cooking.  I am not the best and most famous, but I get things done.  And, being a Service Chef(see what I did there?), I want to cook for others.

If you are interested in cooking lessons, meal planning or having an event, contact me.  I am open minded and try to work with people.  And I don't mind a little alternative lifestyle in the mix.

R

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