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Miss R’s Bio

September 4, 2011 / posted in FAQ / No Comments

Miss R has been intrigued and involved with the Fetish subculture for many years. Experiencing both the Top/Domme and bottom/sub roles, She eased into being a full time Domme in the Fetish community over 20 years ago. She has experience with individuals, couples and hosting 'Play Parties' of up to 30 select people.

The Leathermines has been a physical Dungeon on and off for the last few years, changing locations as the economy, and the landlords, changed directions. The latest incarnation has many theme rooms, and several residents. The theme rooms will be showing up in pictures taken of sessions with some of Miss R's willing subs.

Having a varied education, Miss R enjoys being in the company of men and women who, besides deciding to live out erotic and fetish fantasies, can hold a lively and fairly erudite conversation. There is nothing worse than a bored Miss R.

Though She has a stable of subs and a few other Dominants that She works with, Miss R is always looking for eligible clients to see. If an applicant is not what Miss R is looking for, or the client decides that Miss R isn’t right for them, She will refer to someone more appropriate. Having the experience of being the bottom in a scene, She carefully goes through an extensive interview process before accepting any new clients. Bringing out the fantasies, the fears, the expectations of a client is never the same between people, or the same person from session to session. From being an Amazon, an Interrogator or even a Governess, Miss R can help create the fantasy appropriate for each of Her clients.

The physical nature of what is done in a session changes. Miss R has experienced all of what She gives out having been a bottom at one time. Because of the differences in every client, She tries to make sure that the limitations of each client is pushed, not exceeded. This, and safety issues, are always forward in Her mind to keep Her clients, and Herself, from being hurt unnecessarily.

The scenes that Miss R can set up have ranged from simple physical dominance and submission to full Jail scenes and into the Harem. Each has qualities, and experiences, that can enhance the learning of yourself, and your fantasies. If meeting with a couple, each will be expected to have a full individual session with Miss R before having the session together. It is unfair for each of the participants not to be able to fully disclose what they want and need without the individual experience.

For those of you who wish a more personal look into Miss R's life here are a few answers to a few questions:
Miss R is in a committed relationship. She does not have children. She does not smoke and prefers to be around those who do not. She is an omnivore, but understands and appreciates differences in eating regimens. Miss R does not do drugs. Miss R does not drink alcohol, except on very special occasions. Miss R will not have sessions with people who are under the influence of alcohol or medicines, prescription or recreational.

If you wish to know the personal tastes of Miss R further, please go to the Tribute page.

More information can be seen on the original FAQ/ Fact Sheet page.  The new FAQ is being built.

If you wish to email Miss R, please use this Contact.

Fact Sheet – Safe Word

August 31, 2011 / posted in FAQ / No Comments

Safe words are signals to those involved with a scene that something isn’t right. Safety may not seem to be a prime concern to those observing a scene, but without safe words, it can be downright dangerous. It is no fun loosing a partner.

If you are just starting out with fetish play, a simple ‘OW’ may suffice. If saying ow is part of the fun, perhaps something else should be chosen. There are several ways to choose a safe word. Try a word that would not come up in common conversation, like eclipse or birthday. If you have a pet or favorite person, try their name. If you have an ‘in scene’ name, use your real name as your safe word.

Perhaps you cannot think of a safe word, or your partner cannot. Try using the stoplight method.

Red means STOP right now.
Yellow means slow down or back off, but don’t stop.
Green means, it’s o.k., I actually liked it...
And for those who are into more color, Blue can mean, 'What, you hit me?'

Doing what is called a calibration at the beginning can let you know how hard to start out.  What would be a 4 on a 1 to 10 scale for one person may be a 9 for another.

If you are into gags, a safe signal should be employed. A small bell, a hand gesture or the ability to undo the bonds are all good ways of having a measure of safety.
If you are the Top/Dom of the scene, please keep in mind that sometimes the people you are with cannot think for themselves while under the influence of endorphins. The damage that you see may not register to your sub/bottom until it is too late. You can call Safeword as much as the person you are with. If they cannot answer you coherently, it is time to call Safeword.
I call Safeword and want you to answer a few questions.

Do you have a Safeword?
Yes ___ No ___

What is your Safe word?
Yes!  You must have one!   ______

Do you have different Safe words for different situations?
Yes ___ No ___

In what situation would you not want a Safe word?

(Trick question, even consensual non-consent scenes have safe words)

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